Twenty-five years ago we bought our 1822 Federal house in the Hudson River valley, and it has now passed its two-century mark in age. We were a new couple back then and yearned for a place to settle, a place with a sense of history and permanence. Each of us, the last child at home when the homes broke up, now has lived in a house longer than either of us had ever lived in any one place before.
Waking up the first morning in the house was the beginning of a wonderful journey. We agreed with one another that we must always listen to the house and property and buy old things as much as possible. That led to a mad hunt to fill and furnish the house, which started and continued with visits to countless dealers’ shops and to countless antiques fairs on the Eastern Seaboard.
My own obsession during this search was to have more than enough supplies to be able to set tables and host parties—whether for a few friends over a weekend, for a birthday brunch for a pal and twenty guests, or for a holiday party for eighty. I have been quoted as saying “I never set the table the same way twice.” My goal has always been to share, to be generous, and to create a special and possibly unusual experience for everyone, whether close friends or new acquaintances. So I have been building a collection of stacks of dishes and platters, shelves of stemware, and drawers of flatware for decades, all with one thing in mind: to be with fellow travelers and entertain.
Having an old American house of the early nineteenth century has been a gateway to collecting American, French, and English antiques of the late eighteenth and early nineteenth centuries. That era has always been our sweet spot. And our goal has always been to respect the house—a strong taskmaster—and be period-ish. We paid special attention to the convivial, antiques-abundant atmosphere that interior decorator Henry Davis Sleeper (1878–1934) conjured at Beauport, his harbor-side mansion in Gloucester, Massachusetts. As devoted readers of this magazine, we have the great and singular pleasure to be able to share how we use our house and antiques to celebrate friends, history, and our good fortune.